I think that one of the most beautiful feelings we get to experience in life, is when things click in our minds. It’s that A-ha! moment when the key clicks inside. It’s very rewarding and if you are prone to digging yourself, then you know what I’m unto here.

Let’s say you have a certain belief, and you keep on repeating it, sometimes unconsciously, sometimes consciously but you are entirely unaware of it, so you never actually ask yourself why do you believe in such thing? Let’s say you believe that you have to work really hard in order to earn money. Did you ever ask yourself where is this coming from? Was there something your ancestor did and it the same belief just transferred onto you via DNA or was it something you did, and it makes you believe in that? It’s actually both connected.

Once you realize that we are heavily influenced by our DNA, our ancestors, transferred belief system, you won’t believe how things quickly fall into place in your head. Once you start noticing the pattern, it’s easier to identify it and work on it. For example, I realized that many women are still influenced subconsciously that they need a man, that they can depend on a man, that they can’t live their life without one. But is this really true?

If you pay attention, you will hear and see everything about the person based on the simple words and conversations they have with you. Programs start running out of them, conditioning, belief system, you only need to pay attention. The same thing comes up when women speak of men. I’m not saying that women and men don’t need each other. We all need each other if we wish to heal this world, but I think that women can want a man and still be true to themselves. Still choose to be who they are, still be independent and free without relying on anyone especially on a man. For example, I do not approve the common narrative I see that feminism means liberation of mostly white and Western women. False! Feminism means equal rights for each and every woman, anywhere on this planet. It doesn’t mean becoming a man, it means being free. That’s what feminism is about. How can I feel free if a woman in Congo, Sudan, Palestine, Afghanistan is not? How can I say we all free when these women are living in horrible conditions, inhumane conditions. And how can a man be a saviour here? He cannot. Also, everything I just said could be something I’m carrying but for me this feels like something I developed.

Again, once you realize your own shortcomings, your own shadow side, you can also see it in others and help them clear it out. The illusion we had of this world lifted this year, if you haven’t noticed. Everything we thought we knew is just gone. The veil has been lifted, and this world is deeply disturbed and hurt. We need the new leaders asap.

Think about your own ways. You might dig up something unexpected.