Femininity

I’m not sure if every woman feels it, but they should be feeling this rise of womanhood, femininity, that energy is truly rising and I’m here for it. And I have never felt better about being a woman, I wouldn’t for the life of me wish to be a man. There is something in the air and it’s giving me hope and inspiration.

Have you ever thought about how we were programmed and conditioned to not like women? Even as women, we have so much of internalized misogyny, and it takes a lot of time to heal it and remove it from your life. I’m not saying that there are no evil women, envious, jealous, male-centered women, there are of course, we have all seen it. But true womanhood is beautiful. I keep on noticing it, how easy it is to connect to other women of all ages. How easy it is to strike a conversation, to be nice, to be kind, to give an honest compliment. I swear, girls give me hope.

Throughout my life I have been shaped, brought up and influenced by mostly women because strong, empowering women were surrounding me and they still do. You don’t need a better role model than your own mother. And I know that not all mothers are the same, not all mothers love their children or give them time and energy, but watching my mother raise two girls alone has been nothing less than admiring. Just like so many mothers did and still do all over the world. In my language we say that the father could be anyone, but the mother is only one. Which is absolutely true. This is not to say that there are no good men, good single fathers raising children, good fathers, brothers, friends. There absolutely are, but again not as many as women.

It gives me so much hope that so many of us can finally chose and break free from all the programming, from all the influence, generational trauma and condition that we have to be anything that we don’t want to be, that we have to get married, have kids, do the jobs we hate, show up for family, friends and let others drain our energy. Well, we finally can choose whatever the fuck we want to do. And I want this for each and every woman in this world. None of us are free until every woman is free. My heart breaks for women who were unlucky enough to be born in certain countries – countries run by men and their sick desires.

I think that healing our feminine side is crucial because then you get to see how being a woman actually is, how it feels, and how connecting with other women is easy if they are also on the similar wavelength. It makes you less judgemental, less guarded and it’s actually so healing to meet other women similar to you and to actually realize how there will always be a woman who will embrace you and comfort you.

I love seeing when women are being unapologetically themselves and they dress the way they want; they behave the way they want; they have their own unique style. I like to observe people in general, but seeing women be themselves and not give a flying fuck is so healing. I think that the focus is being transferred to women now, and we all know how desperately we need matriarch. And it will happen whether you like it or not. Patriarchy is hurting all of us, it’s just that men cannot see it because they are scared. But women are rising and we are fucking angry and so done with all of the abuse.

We need women now more than ever. This world needs to feel the rage and rise of the women and I’m here to witness it all. I can’t wait. If you think that it didn’t already start, oh yes, it did. You are just not paying attention. Can’t wait to dethrone the men! And once matriarchy takes over, we need the good men, feminist men on our side. You are with us or you are not. Boy, bye!

The future is female. Just wait and see!

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