DisappointMENts

Did you ever wonder how the world would look like if matriarchy was the system instead of this boiling hell we have called the patriarchy. If the system aka patriarchy doesn’t make you furious, then there is something wrong with you. And I’m not afraid to call to call you out.

People in my environment are quick to call me a manhater. I do not hate men. Not all men at least. I have many good men in my life who are not being misogynists and are normal human beings. But I do have a huge problem with men who are manipulating the system in their favour, with men who benefit from the system, who make the system, who are being protected by the system when they rape, hurt and kill women and children. It makes me so furious because they are not being held accountable for their monstrous behaviour. Me being furious and so angry is not because my own encounters with men were disappointing, but because I can feel the rage of all women rising and one of these days, we will boil to the point of no return. If I had a dragon, I would lure out all red pill men, all ugly souls, demons pedos, and evil men out of their holes and burn them alive. Like they used to burn us at stakes.

If, you as a man are not angry, do not see the injustice, the pain, the destruction caused by your fellow men, then what are you doing? If you don’t talk about it with your friends, if you don’t hold them accountable, who will? Imagine if one day we switch the roles and suddenly you are a slave. I come home from work and start yelling, I start beating you, I start prohibiting you to go out, to hang out with other men, to watch sports. I restrict every single movement you have just because I want to. Just because my courage is so small that in order to feel big, I need to make you feel small. It’s a disaster. But men can never see it this way because they think that this scenario is impossible. And I wish I can make it possible. I like to believe that the boiling point is coming. And fast.

Once upon a time, someone asked me why do we still need feminism, didn’t we get all the rights already? Excuse me! What rights are you talking about? The femicide numbers are rising, rape numbers are rising all over the world and don’t get me started on the problems women and children face in Congo, Sudan, Afghanistan. Do you really think feminism is applicable only locally? Like it only applies to women in Europe, USA, Canada, Australia? Don’t you think that all women and girls deserve a normal life, to feel safe to walk around normally? To live free of anxiety and stress? As a woman I need to think about hundred different ways when I book my vacation, I need to think about safety, I need to think about routes, re-routes to avoid dark places, I need to make sure there are people around. It’s exhausting! But I’m sure it must be nice to be a privileged man. If you haven’t, go check an interview where they ask random women and men on the street would they feel safe on an island with only men? Even men said no.

I’d like to think that the future really is female. I’d like to see the world where women are supported and surrounded by men who care about women, who understand the force women hold. Who understand that their own lives depend on women and their choices. I’d like to imagine a safer, kinder world for all beings, not just humans. Under patriarchy, everyone suffers. Nature, animals, women, men and children. If only men could realize that the system hurts them too, we would have a much better world.

This is why it’s important to know what kind of content you digest daily and what actually feeds your brain. So, choose wisely, choose to listen to women. And not gaslight, hurt and make fun of.

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